Love conquers all !!!

Love has the power to change.
 Yes ! It is capable of bringing the real change in the places where it seems impossible to exist. In the people who need it the most and mostly are in dead defiance of it. It lightens the stark dark places inside their well fenced hearts and minds. It can make them think for a while that their battle with the world, their race with self and their growing dissatisfaction with Life is just futile until they live or at least feel this beautiful emotion . They are reborn like a phoenix  from the ashes of their hard crusts burnt by the pious fire of love and compassion. So we all have loved or have been loved in our lives. By our mother, friends, lover and unexpectedly sometimes by complete strangers. We grow from each love, develop the deeper understanding of our existence. 

Our mom loves us unconditionally, spoiling us completely, setting so high expectations of love that we find it difficult to accept any sub standard forms of it. 
Then our siblings , partners in crime, worst enemies but first friends makes us believe that it may need innumerable fights to develop some basic understanding between two. They show a way to hide each other’s weaknesses and teach an art of keeping secrets. 

Then there are these species called ‘friends’ who display some strange characteristics like :    hating your every move , every damn thing you say , creating ruckus on your harmless habits, criticizing all your moves like your ultimate critic portraying themselves as the ultimate master of all the skills. They hate the way you wear your dresses, colours you like , the way you make your hair, the movies you watch and drive you crazy by making fun of you all the time. Still they love in a strange way . They know when to stop bugging you , when beyond making your fun come to offer an understanding stance to your situation. They make you feel every problem of yours smaller with their continuous stupid jokes or the bizzare  solutions to them. Within no time you find yourself laughing at your very problems (which did seem larger than life) and for the first time you feel to hug these notorious  creatures and say -  a big thank you. This moment comes and they become your buddies for life. Now they have commenced themselves with the plethora of nonsense thoughts , stupid dreams, wilder fantacies and all the vaguest things you can think of on this earth – they are the first witnesses of them . Sometimes they feel having stepped on the axe, but then they start opening up and  well ah ! its mutual now.  

Then He(She) enters who goes beyond the friendship , trust and mutual admiration and step in an unexplored zone called love. These stupid creatures suddenly start making you realize that your smile is cute, that your voice is great , your hairs flow naturally to your back and shamelessly accept that your curves drive their nerves. You raise your brows the moment they admit all this, but- but- but somehow now you like the mirrors more and crosscheck every details they mentioned. Then you discuss all these things with the species ‘ friends’ mentioned above who suggest you to make them pass through several tests. But the hardest are the tests of time. You realize that the commitment they show is beyond your looks ( that’s very rare ) or situation. They have fell in love with YOU in YOU and that moment you realize HE(SHE) is the one for you. You start discovering the softest side of yours which you never thought ever existed. Commitment, understanding , possessiveness , mutual respect for the dreams to come true , constructive criticism , building real confidence based on real (perennial) things and insatiable desire of togetherness forever ( for the least). You suddenly stop seeking and start living in love.

So here you are : purified by so many forms of love – a new person – reborn from new moms -  several times -  like never before. Then why the hell on earth are people so scared of loving and caring. So damn scared of getting hurt all the time. Why at all, they hold the call which is natural ,  real and stop being someone they are destined to be .

Just to avoid pain , suffering ?? They do play their part in harnessing us before we get back to where we come from, into the Him. 
Be open people , we live once.